Monday, December 1, 2014
Hey Y'all! Guess what happened to me last Wednesday? Two days before most small businesses hold Black Friday, Small Business Saturday and Cyber Monday sales, my laptop decided it was done with life. Dead. All gone. And I mean, ALL gone...
Once some tech savvy friends get all the guts they need out of it, I'm holding a funeral and moving on to greener pastures. :( I started BGD on that laptop, so I shed a tear for the memories. The hunt for a new one is still on, but for now my sweet sister is letting me use hers to tell you who won the giveaway!
Paige Pierog is our winner! Congratulations, Paige! I've already contacted her for information, so she should have her prize very soon. :)
Also, even though some of the things I needed to run a truly awesome sale are still in the brains of my old, dead friend, I want to do something to kick-off the holidays. So, through tomorrow, everything in my shop is 40% off with this code: HOLIDAYBEGINS2014
If you are a reader of my friend Beth's blog, Oak and Oats, you can get an extra 15% off with her gift guide code.
I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving and a great start to December! And if anyone loves their reasonably-priced laptop, tell me in the comments please!
Wednesday, November 26, 2014
Friends, today is the last Inspired to be Positive post and it has been penned by the very sweet and lovely Laura Jean of According to Laura Jean! I introduced myself to Laura Jean specifically to ask if she could write this post. Her blog has been a very fun and encouraging read to me and I knew she would pass that on to you, as well. When I received her post, I was blown away by how beautiful her message was. It's pretty much exactly what I had envisioned for this series. Please make sure you take the time to thank Laura Jean for being here today, and check out her blog! :)
Hello dear ones! It is a joy to be with you today and share a bit on the topic of positivity. I apologize in advance for being that blogger who shares about her husband and somewhat goos and gahs over him. But stick with me, even though I do think of him pretty highly, there is a distinct reason he emulates the word positive.
Jacob is best described by those who know him as a positive ball of energy and that is no exaggeration. The world could easily come crashing down and while every other person would fall into mass chaos, myself included, he would still be looking at what is right, beautiful, and positive. Even to strangers, Jake seeks the best in every situation and person.
Honesty time, throughout different seasons of my life I deeply struggle with getting stuck in little bothersome moments and focusing on negative thoughts rather than positive. Is anyone with me? A blueberry smoothie spills on the white carpet - I break into tears and instantly am overwhelmed. I get to work five minutes late and don't have time for breakfast - my thoughts are immediately focused on how this will ruin the rest of my day. My friends, remaining positive is difficult and when these examples are said aloud I feel somewhat foolish. I share them with you however because I venture to guess I am not alone.
This is where Jacob plays an integral part of my everyday life. I have learned from him there is a distinct difference between remaining positive and feeling happy. Happiness is a feeling that can come and go like the wind whereas remaining positive is a choice you make in your everyday moments, attitudes, and words. Spilling my smoothie certainly did not make me happy but Jacob reminded me that remaining positive would have made the whole situation better.
I covet Jake's natural ability to grow and thrive in positivity through all situations. Focusing on being positive is not an overnight process nor is it natural in the negativity that surrounds today's culture. It is essential however to grow in the grace of Jesus and share this character trait with others. Now from the very words of Jake himself, enjoy these practical ways to focus more on positivity in your life.
Don't Get Caught Up in the Small Things
Becoming easily upset and distraught over the small things will only skew your perspective of the grand scheme of life. Choose to overcome these moments with positive thinking and give yourself grace for mistakes.
A Day is a Day
If you are having a bad day, know that it is only one day and tomorrow has the opportunity to be better. It is easy to get stuck in a rut of bummer moments, hours, and seasons of life but when we remain positive and hopeful for what is ahead our mindsets slowly change.
There are Always Two Outcomes
Every situation presents the choice to think of it negatively or positively. With most situations in life there are two ways you can leave it - thinking about it positively or letting it overcome you with negative thoughts and emotions. Take a moment to pause and reflect on what direction you will choose your attitude to take.
Thanks again, Laura Jean! Here's wishing you, and all of YOU sweet readers, a Happy Thanksgiving! May you choose to live it with positivity! :)
Tuesday, November 25, 2014
Thanksgiving's so close. It's scary close. But we all know that right behind it looms Black Friday, which means the time has come to think about gifts. And when you do, there's nothing better than to gift handmade things, which is when you turn to Etsy! Here are just a few shops I'm watching this year for awesome and unique handmade gifts...
-First is When It Rains Paper Co. They specialize in custom stationary, but they also have personalized notebooks, luggage tags and desk calendars...
-Ravenscourt Apothecary is a British company with handmade soaps, bath salts, fragrances, oils and lip balm. I love the literary spin they put on some of the names. Wanna know what Mr. Darcy smells like? This is your chance.
-Next is All is Yay. (That's a super cool name, in my opinion.) The entire shop is pretty much all black and white. They sell notebooks and tote bags that are adorable, but my favorite things right now are all the hats and (huge) mitts!
-Lastly, I chose Pop Chart Lab as a shop to watch. Designer prints that make a chart out of anything and everything...Gift a Great Gatsby chart, a Round-up of Notable Golf Holes, the Giant-size Omnibus of Super Powers, The Breweries of Europe, or Carrie Bradshaw's shoes.
AND don't forget, through Thursday night, you can enter to win a free gift from my own Etsy shop!
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Friday, November 21, 2014
Hi there! I've been slightly MIA this week, but I'm sure you'll forgive me. My Inspired guest poster had conflicts that caused her to put everything blog-related on the back burner (totally understand), and I have been making and listing new pieces like a fiend! In addition to online shop listing, I've also been prepping for a local show that will be running every weekend from now through mid-December. Busy busy holidays!
I have a special post for you today, though. I will be giving away the above gold rock crystal necklace to one lucky winner just in time for the sparkly season. The giveaway will run through Thanksgiving and the winner will be announced on Black Friday to kick-off my Black Friday/Small Business Saturday/Cyber Monday Sale. :) More on that to come...
To check out the details on this necklace in the shop, click here, then go ahead and enter below! Good luck!
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Tuesday, November 18, 2014
Good morning, lovely friends. I woke up to beaucoup amounts of snow in the Midwest yesterday. Or at least it felt like a lot. It was all nice and clumpy on the trees, too. Wanna see?
This morning, I've been spending some time in 1 & 2 Peter and decided to forego the usual blog post to share with you some of the most encouraging things I read.
First of all, I've always liked 1 & 2 Peter. They're written so beautifully. Listen to this: "...And we have something more sure, the prophetic word, to which you will do well to pay attention as to a lamp shining in a dark place, until the day dawns and the morning star rises in your hearts..." -2 Peter 1:19 I mean, I think Tolkien may have stolen that to use in his trilogy somewhere, it's gorgeous!
Some more favorites:
"For this is why the gospel was preached even to those who are dead, that though judged in the flesh the way people are, they might live in the spirit the way God does." - 1 Peter 4:6
"Live as people who are free, not using your freedom as a cover-up for evil, but living servants of God. Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor." -1 Peter 2:16-17
"And after you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you." - 1 Peter 5:10
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you." - 1 Peter 5:6-7
I hope one of those uplifted or gave you direction in some way... If you feel stress over things people care too much about like your physical appearance, your true life is something that can't be seen. Honor everyone and love the brotherhood of special people around you today, because you are a FREE and living servant of God and you have so much to give. The God of all grace will restore, confirm, strengthen and establish you, so feel restored, confirmed, strengthened and established. And cast all your problems and life pressures on Him because he truly cares. :)
Have an awesome day rain or shine or snow!
Friday, November 14, 2014
This weekend I'm attending a Bible study, going out for coffee, visiting old friends and carrying on my pre-holiday jewelry making crusade. There are new pieces covering a designated portion of my work space, lending extra inspiration and encouragement whenever I need it. I can't wait to share them with you! To be honest, the next portion of the process is my least favorite: the photoshoot. I love having beautiful photos of my jewelry, but sometimes getting them can be a long and tedious experiment. I'll let you know how it goes. :)
From the week (and last week):
-Renee Zellweger & Learning to be Happy with How You Look This is a sad, yet fascinating story. I've always thought she was so uniquely beautiful.
-35 Author on Author Put-Downs Perspective is a powerful thing.
-"Putting aside the distractions and lust for the elusive success and putting forward a charge to love others well, to love my family well, and to love myself well." - Leia Bryn (In This Season)
-Sweet Honey and Jalapeno Cornbread Muffins YUM
-20 Quotes from Children's Books Every Adult Should Know
-The Disease of Being Busy This (very liberal) publication got it right.
-What Playing a Musical Instrument Does to Your Brain
-To the Girl Who's Trying I put this on my bookmarks bar so I can quickly find it. I needed it this week.
-I don't particularly like rap (I do like HP), but this...this is impressive:
-This will make you tear up. This paraplegic veteran's buddies rigged up a harness so that his bride could have a surprise dance with him at their wedding:
That's all, folks! Have a happy Friday!
Wednesday, November 12, 2014
Hey Everyone! Exciting! Madison of The Wetherills Say I Do is here today to share about a special lady who fought for her positivity. Thank you so much, Madison, for sharing this story with us! For those of you who have never visited The Wetherills Say I Do, it's a very encouraging faith and lifestyle blog where Madison writes about she and her husband's lives, cooking, blogging, designing, and much more. Stop on by after you read today's Inspired story:
When I think back to the person who was most positive in my life, I think of one person. It's not a parent or another family member. In fact, it's someone I didn't get along with at first. But now, she will always be a huge part of my life and who I have become. Her name was Debbie. She was a small group leader for a college group that I was a part of my freshman year in college. At first, we didn't click because I thought I knew what was best, typical 18 year old, right? Over the next six months after we met, we started to build a relationship. She had had cancer before and it was back. But that never stopped her from keeping her eyes on Jesus and moving forward.
I've never met someone so positive. No matter what was taken away from her (her strength, her control, her body, her life) she was always positive. There were rough moments where she was completely vulnerable and definitely showed her weakness, although it was never about faking it. But regardless of how she felt or looked, she always kept the "glass half full" mentality. I only knew Deb for a short amount of time, and I will always wish I had had more time with her. We always want more time, don't we? But in my time with her, she became like a second mom to me. She prayed weekly for her "High Point girls" that were a part of our small group. She hosted dinners at her house or took me out to breakfast, even though she couldn't drink coffee for fear of staying up all night, even if she had one cup at 9AM.
I envy her positivity because it's something we can all struggle to find. Something as little as a stained shirt can ruin an entire day, rather than it being a fleeting moment that doesn't affect the outcome of our day. Watching Debbie overcome the mental battle she faced with cancer was inspiring and awing. Here are a few things I think Deb would tell us to do to stay positive:
- Focus on the good - There will always be rough patches. Focus instead on what is good right now.
- Focus on what you can control - My dad has this huge lecture he used to give me about what's in your circle of control versus what's outside of it. It's a powerful illustration to realize what you're able to do and what you aren't. There's no use focusing on what you can't control or change because that just causes negative energy.
- Focus on the eternal - We live in a very perishable world. We focus on material things that ultimately won't go anywhere with us. Instead we should focus on those things that God has given us that will continue with us. We can focus on the negative that nothing will come with us into eternity or we can focus on the positive that God already has so much stored for us in heaven that we don't need anything here.
The main thing to staying positive is to learn to rely not on yourself, but on Him for your ultimate happiness. That's the end game.
Thanks again for being here today, Madison! This was a very impactful message. :)
Stay positive, you guys and have a happy Wednesday!